Dating just isn’t as simple as it used to be. Back in the day a date was considered dinner and a movie. At the end of the night, you walk her to the door like a gentlemen hoping for a goodnight kiss.  Hate to break it to you, but this just doesn’t happen anymore. With so much going on these days, it’s really difficult to know how to go at things the right way.  So where to start?

Location

Location is a crucial point to get right.  This will literally make or break you.  If you’re stuck in a movie theater for 2 hours with no talking – you’re hardly furthering the seduction process.

Your best bet is to go somewhere fun, easy, and inexpensive.  Free dates are the best.  You shouldn’t have to buy her approval.

Some great places to go that are relatively inexpensive are:

-          Walk in the park

-          Trip to the zoo

-          Coffee

-          Bowling

-          Swimming

A date shouldn’t cost you much more than $5.  Try to take advantage of popular things in your area

Travel

Generally I’ll meet first dates out at the destination chosen.  This is the easiest to do, and this leaves her feeling more comfortable because she can leave at any time.  It really depends on how well you know her, if you’ve only talked to her for 10 minutes this will work fine. If you’ve talked to her for say 2 hours and started to really get to know her, you can tell her you’ll pick her up at her place.  Use your own judgment.

Stages

Most dates start off as a get to know you kind of thing and rarely delve into sex immediately.  It usually takes a couple meetings to have her warm up to you (depending on your level of game).  Just remember that you should lead the interaction and always push forward, because she’s not going to.  If she’s uncomfortable, she’ll let you know.  Two steps  forward, one step back.

Payment

Paying for the date… should you pay… shouldn’t you pay… what’s the deal?

Well, this basically comes down to you.  It is the gentlemen thing to do – but you shouldn’t feel obligated to pay for her.  If you want to, then do so.

I generally pay for stuff if I am out on a date.  Most of the time the woman will offer to pay for her half – I’ll smile, look at her and tell her she can’t buy her way into my pants, I am not that easy.  Follow these guidelines to start attracting women and having more successful dates.