Is she attracted to you?

So you want to know how to attract women?  Better yet, you probably want to know how to attract beautiful women.  Attraction is a large topic, so we’re going to cover some of the key points – to cover the topic in its entirety would take more than a one page post.

First of all what is attraction?

Attraction is that feeling you get when you see a beautiful woman and you are helplessly drawn towards her.  You have virtually no control over that matter.   You could be attracted to her physical beauty, her energy or her personality.

From a male perspective initially attraction is physical.  You see your perfect girl walking down the street and you know you have to have her.  On the other hand, attraction from a female perspective is much more than just appearance.

While appearance is something they consider, it’s not make or break by any means.  A few of the key factors that attract women are confidence, the ability to be a man, and an overall positive/fun outlook.  Let’s have a look at these a bit more closely.

Confidence

This is so important I cannot stress this enough.  Without confidence your success with women will be limited at best.  You must truly believe in yourself because if you don’t no one else will.

What if you don’t have very high confidence though?

You have to build up your confidence.  You must accept yourself for you are.  Next you must take steps in order to boost your confidence.  That could be approaching two women a day.  That could be going on more dates.  The more you put yourself out there, taking chances and trying new things, the more your confidence and self esteem will build.  Positive action will help you build confidence.

Being a Man

What is attractive to a woman?  A real man!  That’s right, someone who is able to stand his ground and be confident and masculine so she doesn’t have to be.  Women want a protector, someone they can trust and completely let their self go around.  Being a man means not taking her shit, and having your own morals and values.  Your happiness is not dependent on others, but comes from within.   The non-needy nature of a real man is an extremely attractive quality to women.

Positive and Fun Outlook

If you’re somebody who’s always down, upset, or never in a very good mood you are definitely going to want to change your outlook on life.  Who is going to want to hang around with you if you’re a drag to be around?  Women are attracted to men with goals and aspirations.  Somebody that’s fun to be around and has an upbeat presence.  Having strong direction in your life will make you much more desirable than somebody with no real goals.

Still wondering how to attract women?  Attraction starts from within.  It’s about the qualities you possess and the way you express yourself.  She’s going to be attracted to who you are as a person, not the words you say – the words are just a byproduct.